Opening to Relationship
By Margaret Ann LemboWhat exactly does that mean? Aren’t we always open to relationship? We are seemingly looking for that soul mate, that one special person. We wonder, “Where is he/she? When will they ever show up?” Perhaps it’s really about how we show up more fully in Life, Love and Joy.
There are many, both men and women, who say they want to be in a relationship with that someone special. We may even believe ourselves. Avoiding getting into relationship is easy. Especially when we focus on anything but being in relationship and sure enough, there will be no relationship. Everything we do, have, and experience is preceded by a thought, whether it is conscious or unconscious. “Belief, imagination and courage manifest reality.”
In order to have a meaningful life, we must think about and imagine it before it happens. A simple example of this is: Before we get up from a chair to walk across the room to go into the kitchen, we have the thought about getting up and walking across the room into the kitchen, even if the thought is brief. We have the thought, “I want to go into the kitchen.” With that thought we are also imagining going into the kitchen. It is that imagining or thought that makes it so. All life works in this way.
So why is it that certain things that we say we want as part of our life, aren’t part of our life? There is a subtle difference between professing that we want something and actually doing something about it. Our heart, mind and emotions must all be in alignment with the same thoughtform for it to become manifest, whatever ‘it’ is. Many of us say they want a relationship, but do they really? Let’s take a look at how some manifest certain things so easily and others cannot manifest those same things at all. The manifestation can be anything, from a job to a car to a relationship to a spiritual teacher.
It all has to do with our belief system. This belief system applies to all areas of our life. Some of us have issues manifesting money but are fulfilled with loving relationships. Others have issues manifesting a healthy happy romantic relationship, but are successful and prosperous. And, yes, we can have it all! The difference is whether or not we believe that we are worthy. We must believe we deserve it and that we will be safe with whatever ‘it’ is. There is a big fear factor when going into romantic relationship or anything that is new and unknown. This is especially true if we have been hurt before. Therefore, the manifestation of a happy, loving relationship into reality also takes tremendous courage. It takes courage to let go of the hurts of past relationship experiences and take the step forward into being vulnerable enough to love again and to allow ourselves to be loved.
Life experiences are the basis upon which we build our relations. This includes past life experiences. Unconsciously, we hold onto our past life experiences that vibrate below the surface waiting to be healed. Whether the blocks to opening to relationship stem from past lives or earlier within this life, the blocks must be revealed and healed in order to move forward and grow up - spiritually. Becoming more conscious allows us to be open to matching up with a partner who is also consciously connected.
As has been said, both men and women say they want a spiritual soul mate. It is important to take the time to imagine, think about, believe, dream and build up courage to allow this new relationship into our lives. When we consciously take steps toward this realization, we manifest that special person to share our life with.
Let us make the choice to consciously work on ourselves and become aware of the energy we send out to attract a similar vibration.
The most important pieces of this puzzle are what we believe and our intention. Do we truly believe there is such a soul mate out there that can be our best friend and lover? Is their any doubt that there is someone for each of us that we feel comfortable with, one who feels familiar yet new and exciting at the same time? Can we imagine our lives with such a beloved being? Is our intention clear? If the answer is no, then I say, “What is the difference between imagining and intending to get up to walk across the room and know that the kitchen will be there when you get there and knowing that each of us deserves and has a beloved partner? Think about it. Feel the knowingness that the beloved mate is so close that walking across the room may be all we need to do to connect with and open our sacred heart to give and receive the Love!
“Belief, imagination and courage manifest reality.”
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