We are Sacred Beings of Love and Light. We are phenomenal beings deserving love, respect, loyalty, companionship and true friendship. We are a compilation of a series of experiences leaving us with various memories stored in our physical, spiritual, mental and emotional subtle bodies. We all want to feel safe in relationship. We need to trust another when we are in relationship. What we really need is to trust ourselves.
    As we develop spiritually, we enter into relationships consciously. Due to the variety of prior relationships and the good and bad experiences, it often takes great courage to consciously move into relationship with another. When we allow ourselves the gift of loving ourselves enough to move forward into intimacy, we step up to the plate and show up more fully in life. I have been experiencing that intimacy is simply a way to truly know myself better and to love myself more deeply. It may appear that we are projecting our love and attention outside of ourselves yet when we truly observe ourselves, then we see that intimacy is really ‘into me see.’ So the question really is: “Can we trust ourselves?” By trusting ourselves, we open up the Sacred Heart. We all have a Sacred Heart and it is that Heart we need to open to truly allow for the Sacred Relationship to emerge. This allows for Sacred Union and the Divine Marriage. It is the Union of the Divine Masculine and Feminine within the Self of the Sacred Being that allows to outwardly manifest a relationship with another Sacred Being.
    Fortunately and unfortunately, the experiences of the past provide a foundation for how we act, react and interact with others in business, friendship and in affairs of the heart. The fortunate part is that we have actually lived life and allowed the experiences to happen verses being stuck in the frozen mode of not allowing others into our lives in an intimate way. It’s unfortunate if we become so afraid to open our heart and not allow more experiences in and shut down in fear. Fear is the absence of love. It is time to practice opening our hearts. Somehow being aware that we are ‘practicing opening the heart’ takes a bit of the pressure off. The place to start that practice is within the self. Truly feeling and being the love that you are and allowing your light to shine fully, will provide the courage and support to have loving relationship experiences.
    Basically, I have found that approaching romantic attraction to another is a gift and an opportunity to practice opening my heart and feeling love. What a wonderful thing it is to connect with another person so deeply that it actually doesn’t matter if they return the love and affection. Wow! That’s the gift of feeling unconditionally loving towards another! Giving unconditional love to another is as great a gift as receiving unconditional love from another. I am grateful when I am gifted with another Sacred Being to be my mirror so I may see myself better to learn, grow, live and love more fully and deeply.